Can Laughing Lead To… ?
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Can Laughter Trigger An Orgasm?
Hi Doc, Something happened to me the other night that kind of blew my mind,
and my girlfriend and I are not even sure what happened. OK. So we were having sex
together. It was a hard ramming session, and both of us were really into it. We were in
doggy style, and
she pulled away to lie on her back to get into missionary because she likes to come
while looking into my eyes. To make a long story short, were in missionary and as she
was coming, I slipped out of her. She then queefed while orgasming. I wasn’t even close
to coming, but when she queefed I kind of laughed and then I came all over the place — a
laughing orgasm. Both of us are not even sure what went down, but just a strange overall
situation. What do you make of all this?- Kevin Honestly, I could make you millionaires if I could get that on tape. The YouTube
hits alone would make you celebrities, and I’m sure we could sell the video. What a
fascinating experience. I hope neither of you feels any remorse or same. These things
happen in sex, and we take the good with the different. While I can’t be certain, here
are my thoughts on the situation. Doggy style is
one of the great positions to fill the vagina with air during penetration. With that air
trapped inside there, it’s very natural for the muscular contractions of orgasm to
push out the air in the form a queef or a vart. The laughter triggering your
orgasm and ejaculation is a little more speculative. My guess is either the laugh or the
sound of her queef (or both) triggered your orgasm and ejaculation. People have been
documented to have orgasmic arousal via sound they find erotic. I think it’s more
likely that the laughter is what made you squirt. I read a research paper about a year
ago that described Chinese researchers finding a cluster of nerves in the right nostril
that when stimulated, produced orgasm in some people. A laugh or a sneeze could
definitely bring on the stimulation. It could also have been the muscular contraction in
the core and pelvic region that could have triggered orgasm and ejaculation. The
important thing is not to let this negatively affect you or your partner. Life is too
short to have hang-ups. Just add this to your personal sexual blooper reel, laugh about
it and keep sex and pleasure thriving.
Is There Such A Thing As A Hands-Free Vibrator?
Hi Doc, So I’ve been
reading your columns and have picked up a couple of good tips that are working with my
girlfriend pretty well. I’ve gotten over my vibrator
phobia and see now that it is actually pretty helpful to use on her clit or her
g-spot during sex. One thing still gets to me is that I have to hold the vibrator. I
would love to have both hands free. Any advice? Oh, and, yes, we’ve tried a
vibrating cock ring and have one of those. Anything else for a clit or g-spot? Thanks,EricWell, aside from growing a third
arm, the options get pretty slim when it comes to hands-free sex toys that vibrate for
clitoral stimulation. There are a few product that lasso around her pelvic region that
look like butterflies or flowers, but those are few and far between. Most toys need a
little hand loving to work the controls or hold them in place against the clitoris or
g-spot. But you’re in luck. There’s a little gizmo that can stimulate and stay in
place to allow your hands to roam the fertile prairie and explore her wild
frontier. The We-Vibe 3 is a product that is shaped like a
“U.” One end is inserted into her vagina for g-spot stimulation and the other
end lies on top of her clitoris externally. It’s hands-free with a wireless remote,
it’s waterproof and it grips her body so you don’t have to hold it in place. Presto! Hands
are free to pinch, twist, tweak, pull and tickle. What’s even better is you can slide your penis inside her vagina while the
We-Vibe 3 is doing it’s vibrating dance. Your penis will be feeling the pleasure
while your hands are free, her clit is shaking and her g-spot is tingling. I use to own
one of these babies and tried this out firsthand in the name of scientific research. Would
it be pleasurable for her? How would it feel against my penis? Would it be too tight for
her or painful? I’m happy to report the experiment went well. Pleasurable beyond
imagination according to her, and my penis had a great time. As for the tightness, the
report was it felt fine and not painful at all. The vagina can expand and accommodate us
both (us being my penis and a We-Vibe). The only downside to this whole experiment? She
took my toy. I know, I sound like a kid in kindergarten. Maybe I would’ve bought the
line that she forgot it was still inside her when she left, but who takes the toy and
the charger? Bad karma to five-finger discount a sex toy, but then again, it’s
not like I was going to reuse it with someone else. My guess is she really liked the toy
— it sure sounded like it.