Clitoral Stimulation Techniques
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Gentle massaging
Oral sex can be
earth shattering, but manual stimulation can be just as satisfying when done correctly.
The next time you’re in bed, slide behind your woman and pull her up onto her knees.
Draw her back against your chest and tease her body until she’s writhing in your
arms. From this position, you can use your fingers to gently massage her clitoris.
There’s no need to retract the hood, just work your magic in slow, sexy circles. Try
not to apply too much pressure to the clit — no squishing, unless she asks for it of
course. If you want to add a little variety, try side-to-side or diagonal strokes. This is
precisely how many women stimulate themselves and their bodies will respond
automatically. Clit tip: Don’t use your tongue to lubricate your
fingers; saliva only works through constant application, and you don’t want to
interrupt stimulation once you’ve started. If she’s truly turned on, coat your
fingers with her own lubrication; it’ll last much longer.
Multiple manual
stimulation
This is a fantastic method of stimulating the
clitoris, but the execution can be somewhat tricky. The best position for this is with
her lying on her back, and you lying beside her. Start with the gentle massaging method we
just discussed, and continue until she’s very, very wet. At that point, you’ll
want to slide a finger or two inside of her. Take your time. You don’t want to
inflict pain, as that would kill the mood. When she’s ready for more, place your
thumb on her clitoris and start to massage it. The
combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation will double her pleasure, not to mention
lead to a very unique orgasm. Clit tip: If your fingers aren’t
long enough to simulate intercourse while keeping your thumb on her clitoris, don’t
worry about it. The main stimulation here should be clitoral, and it’s perfectly
fine if your other fingers don’t move very much; some women actually prefer this.
start small but finish big
The clitoris really isn’t the mystery many
claim it to be; any man can make a woman orgasm with the right clitoral stimulation
techniques. All you have to do is be patient, take your time and give her a chance to be
properly turned on. Start with small, gentle strokes and work your way up from there. Your
woman will let you know when she’s ready for all-out clitoral stimulation. Until
that time, your best bet is just to let her simmer with desire — the pot will eventually
boil over, we promise.