What To Do When She Wants To Go For Round Two
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Most guys know more about what’s under the hood of a car than they do about what’s
under the hood of a clitoris. We’re woefully “ill-cliterate,” which is
a shame when you consider that the clitoris — with more than 18 parts, twice as many
nerve endings as the penis, and the enviable ability to produce multiple orgasms — is the
indisputable powerhouse of the female orgasm. Fortunately, when pleasuring a woman, there are
multiple methods for multiple orgasms, so in the spirit of resourcefulness, here are some
sexual survival tips for making it happen.
Avoid Freud
Forget everything you learned in Psychology 101. Sigmund Freud made a name for himself
demonizing the clitoris and formulating a truly kooky view of women’s sexuality.
Freud got the idea into his head that the clitoris was an immature source of sexual
pleasure, a mere launching pad for the more mature vaginal orgasm, which, of course, could
only be produced via genital intercourse. At the end of his life, Freud acknowledged his
incomplete understanding of female sexuality
and said, “If you want to know more about femininity, you must interrogate your own
experience, or turn to the poets, or else wait until science can give you more profound
and more coherent information.” Or, for today’s modern guy, just turn to the
woman in bed next to you and deploy some basic cliteracy.
Ladies first
When it comes to satisfying a woman, a little old-fashioned chivalry goes a long way.
Lest you think the importance of such courtesy is over-exaggerated, direct your attention
to Lorena Bobbitt who, when questioned by police as to why she cut off her husband’s
penis, responded, “He always has an orgasm and doesn’t wait for me. It’s
unfair.” Need one say more? The simple fact is that the male orgasm
typically comes easy. Masters and Johnson dubbed it “ejaculatory
inevitability” and the late Dr. Alfred C. Kinsey declared that 75% of men ejaculate within
two minutes. Is it any surprise, then, that researchers from the University
of Chicago declared in the 1994 Sex in America Survey that men reach orgasm during
intercourse far more consistently than women do, and that three-quarters of men, but less
than a third of women, always have orgasms? This means that more than two out of three
women on average are consistently denied their climax — good reason to start hiding the
cutlery. Studies such as those by Kinsey and Masters & Johnson have
concluded that, among women whose partners spent 21 minutes or longer on foreplay, only
7.7% failed to reach orgasm consistently. That’s a shift of tectonic proportions,
from two out of three women not being able to reach climax to 9 out of 10 achieving
satisfaction, all due to a matter of minutes. So take the path of the true
gentleman: Postpone your pleasure. As Sir Thomas Wyatt wrote, “Patience shall be my
song.”
Think outside the box
Rare is the man who boasts in the locker room, “I made love to her as subtly and
lightly as a feather” or, “I grazed her vulva as with the delicate wings of a
butterfly.” Yet such language would be appropriate, since the inner two-thirds of
the vagina are substantially less sensitive than the outer third. So think outside the box
(pun definitely intended), but know that the clitoris is extremely sensitive to physical
sensation and needs to be properly prepped for serious stimulation. Avoid her genitals and
go easy on the breasts
for a good 10 to 15 minutes. Let’s get to some of the best
methods for multiple orgasms…